Couples Counselor, Author, Marriage Blogger

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I am the owner of Lori Epting Counseling, PLLC, and am a licensed clinical mental health counselor in Charlotte, North Carolina, specializing in couples therapy and relationship issues. I hold a master’s in counseling and am formally trained in the professionally accepted and empirically validated treatment model of emotionally focused couples therapy. I authored the book From Chaos to Connection: A Marriage Counselor’s Candid Guide for the Modern Couple. I am also a topic expert for GoodTherapy.org where I contribute articles regarding relationships. I help couples navigate the complexities of modern marriage at my professional blog, Marriage Sense: Making Sense of the Modern Marriage.

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About Me

  • Couples and Individual Therapist

  • Trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)

  • Author and Relationship Blogger

  • Specialized in Addiction/Infidelity

My Bio

 
  • Nationally Certified Counselor. 

  • Member of the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (ICCEFT.com).

  • Masters of Counseling from Arizona State University’s accredited counseling program.

  • Graduate of the Kenan-Flagler Business School at The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill with a business degree.

  • Interned and continued with eight years of practice at an internationally renowned practice, Psychological Counseling Services (PCS), www.pcsearle.com, in Scottsdale, Arizona.

  • PCS is known for its intensive outpatient program for addiction, where I began my niche in helping couples navigate recovery and reconciliation.

  • I live in Charlotte, NC with my husband of 15 years and my two daughters, ages 8 and 11.

Choosing a therapist can be tricky. Aside from finding the right specialities, the fit needs to feel right too. My style of therapy is reflected well in my writing. To get a better feel what it is like to work with me, read a few of my published articles and blog posts below.


6 Ways to Provide Comfort If You’ve Hurt Your Partner

Recently, I was riding in the car with my very spirited three-year-old. I had picked her up early from a play date to race across town. She was very distressed to leave her friend and let ... Read More


Skeptical About Couples Therapy? 3 Things You Should Know

“Is couples therapy actually going to work?” As a couples therapist, I hear this question a lot. And it’s a valid question. When couples come to therapy, they are usually ... Read More

Relational Hurt or Attachment Injury? How to Tell the Difference

If you have ever been in a relationship, you have experienced hurt. It is inevitable. Even when two people have a connected, secure, and healthy relationship, they will experience hurt ... Read More


4 Steps to Make Sure Couples Therapy Works

A marriage isn't going to save itself. If you are considering couples therapy, do these things too…Read More

Overcoming Addiction in Relationships: An Attachment Perspective

Couples can have a difficult time trying to navigate their relationship when a partner has compulsive or addictive behaviors. In my practice, I often see such couples in a repetitive cycle ... Read More


How “This is Us” Nailed an Important Marriage Lesson

One Episode of "This Is Us" may save you lots of frustration, heart-ache and money in your marriage. It's true...the show pretty much nailed this one…Read More

 

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